“For starters, men naturally build up testosterone overnight, which boosts your coital instincts in the A.M.”, says Tammy Nelson, Ph.D., a sex and relationship therapist and author of Getting the Sex You Want. “Men also have higher levels of vasopressin, a hormone that helps give feelings of emotional attachment. Couple that with an erect penis, and you may feel closer and more attached to your significant other in the morning,” Nelson adds.
Women are wired differently, women are more romantic and the night time fits more into that scenario. Women love to shower, brush their teeth, throw on some lotion and slip into something sexy to compliment a good roll in the hay. So how can Adam and Eve both benefit while satisfying their sexual preferences? Well, for starters men need to understand that after 8 hours of bedding women may be thinking of things like physical cleanliness, appearance and maybe even others in the house, so help her relax and don’t just go in for the kill. Give her time to connect and get accustomed to what’s about to go down. Also, quite frankly women need to visit the loo, it is challenging to take in when you gotta put out. Flattery will get you everywhere so say something that will make her feel good about herself. And although it’s morning and everyone is trying to get up and out, try not to “wham bam thank you ma’am” her.
Just a few tweeks here and there can have women waiting for men to roll over on their side of the bed.